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Kitchen Tips and Tools. Delish Shop. United States. Type keyword s to search. Today's Top Stories. But she was able to think of something that in some ways is normal: "I will tell you something that's very normal, that you wouldn't think," Oprah said. This content is created and maintained by a third party, and imported onto this page to help users provide their email addresses. But how much capacity can we have for other people? Particularly in times like these when everyone is struggling in one way or another, the emotional toll of taking on external stress is high.

And, as studies have found, humans do actually have a limit on how much we can mentally accommodate other people in our lives. On a neurological level, we cannot cope with having too many friends, and the effort of maintaining those friendships can hit particularly hard during the years where we're navigating our careers and personal endeavours. And so, as we get older and take on increased responsibilities and stresses, we naturally become more discerning about just who we have in our lives since we're generally more time and energy-poor anyway.

And on the other end, we're also in the midst of a loneliness epidemic. The two younger generations were also found most likely to report that their loneliness is managed when feeling included by others. So where are we going wrong? With life getting in the way of a lot, losing some of the richness of friendships is inevitable and completely fine. But have you considered intentionally capping these friendships?

Think about it. In many ways, it can allow you to be more invested in nurturing these bonds, and, unless you're feeling closed off to others, can result in more meaningful relationships.

That doesn't mean that introverts are more likely to have better friendships, or even be better friends to others, but just that pouring time and energy into friendships is rewarding and simultaneously taxing. And sometimes we enable ourselves to be better friends when we don't spread ourselves too thin. Having more than a handful of people close to you doesn't mean you're any less of a friend, just as not having anyone you consider very close to you isn't a sign of failure.

We all have our reasons for holding the friendships we do, and navigating friendships as an adult with very little time and energy doesn't come so naturally to everyone. Maybe that's why Oprah stopped doing it. By now, we know that not everyone uses dating apps to find their soulmate.

Some people swipe to find new friends, potentially even a best friend, especiall. At some point, I settled on



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